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Trevor I. Lasn

Builder, founder, based in Tartu, Estonia. Been coding for over a decade, led engineering teams, writing since 2015.

Introverts can be great leaders too

The best leaders I've worked with were introverts. They listened more than they talked and built stronger teams because of it.

Most people think leaders need to be loud. The charismatic speaker who commands the room. The extrovert who energizes every meeting. The person who never stops talking.

But that’s not the only way to lead.

Bill Gates is an introvert. Warren Buffett is an introvert. Mark Zuckerberg is an introvert. Barack Obama described himself as introverted despite spending years giving speeches to thousands.

Introverted leaders have their own strengths. They tend to listen more than they talk. When someone brings a problem, they process it fully before responding.

They think before reacting. They process information, consider options, then decide. This often makes them appear calm under pressure.

Introverts often build deeper one-on-one relationships. They might know fewer people, but those relationships run deeper because they invest time in them.

They create space for others to speak. In a room with a quieter leader, other voices get heard. Not everyone needs to be the loudest person to lead effectively.

The downsides exist too

Introverted leaders can struggle with visibility. If you never speak up, people forget you exist. If you avoid networking, you miss opportunities. If you hate presenting, you can’t inspire teams at scale.

The key is knowing when to push outside your comfort zone. Big company announcements need energy and presence. Team rallies need visible leadership. Crisis moments need someone to step forward.

But day-to-day leadership? The strategic thinking, one-on-one coaching, careful decision-making, and team building? Introverts can excel at this just as much as extroverts.

I’ve worked with both types. Extroverted leaders who rally teams and create energy. Introverted leaders who build deep trust and make thoughtful decisions. Both can be effective.

Being quiet doesn’t mean being weak. It just means leading in a different way. There’s no single blueprint for great leadership.


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This article was originally published on https://www.trevorlasn.com/blog/introverts-can-be-great-leaders. It was written by a human and polished using grammar tools for clarity.